Let’s look at the timing of when you might actually meet someone, since my last essay was about recognizing relationship strengths and flaws in your own birth chart. This is the aspect of astrology that most helps me relax. I used to be a monster on dating apps until I learned about astrology. It was as if my life depended on having male attention at all times, and I’d have emotional breakdowns every time a Tinder guy would ghost me or simply not respond as quickly as I’d hoped.
I wish I’d known back then that my astrological transits were terrible and that meeting someone was simply not the proper moment for me! I could have saved myself a lot of time and effort if I had known this knowledge. Now that I’ve learned about astrology, I can concentrate on other aspects of my life, such as my health, employment, and family relationships. When it comes to love, I don’t feel like such a failure since I know that the planets will ultimately align and provide me with a meaningful connection. Mark my words, I’ll definitely get married in 2026.
But before we get to the meaty details, let me clarify what I’m looking for in a chart when calculating romantic time.
I use full sign homes for everything listed below, and if you haven’t already, I strongly suggest you to do so.
When I’m attempting to figure out when a person will create a meaningful relationship, I start with transits. For something meaningful to happen, numerous transits must occur at the same time. So just because Uranus has entered your seventh house, it doesn’t imply the man of your dreams will appear out of nowhere. A longer outer planet transit (e.g., Neptune, Pluto, Uranus, Saturn, Jupiter) often passes through a relationship house or aspects the ascendant and descendant lines, triggering a shorter inner planet transit (i.e. Mars, Sun, Venus, moon cycles). For instance, Jupiter will be in one house for about a year, but you may not notice its effects in that house until a faster-moving planet like Mars squares, opposes, or forms a conjunction with it.
I’m going to look at secondary progressions next, simply to back it up. The progressed moon and the aspects it makes with other advanced planets or the person’s natal planets are the only things I look at in the progressed chart. You must always overlay progressions with the natal chart while using them.
“How about solar returns?” you might wonder. Perhaps you’re inquiring. Sun returns, I’ve discovered, cannot outweigh transits or progressions, so just though you have a lot of 7th house planets in your solar return chart doesn’t indicate you’ll be in a relationship. Yes, you may interact with more people throughout that year, but if the transits aren’t pointing to a love relationship, it’s unlikely to materialize.
The solar return can illustrate how the transits and progressions will effect a person’s mental well-being. So someone might be experiencing a transit like Saturn entering the 7th house, which could go one of two ways. It could cause a lot of stress and tension in a relationship, or it could help to take a relationship to the next level. A person’s solar return may indicate how they will react to that transit, thus it will only provide you with more information.
Before we get started, it’s crucial to know that several of the transits I discuss below can also indicate a time of breakup. If the relationship isn’t working for you and you’ve been putting off ending it for a while, these transits might sometimes lead to a breakup. However, I’m going to write an entire piece about the astrology of breakups, so keep tuned for that.
Also, just because these transits are happening doesn’t imply the universe will send you the relationship of your dreams if you haven’t been putting forth any effort. These transits will most likely bring someone into your life who treats you badly if you continue to have poor self-esteem or believe you are unworthy of love. Astrology isn’t a cause-and-effect system; you must also put out some effort!
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Saturn:
So, let’s begin with Saturn. It spends about 2.5 years in each house and 29 years to complete a full circle around your horoscope. When it passes through a relationship house or trines/sextiles the related axis – that is, the ascendant and descendant lines – it creates a lengthier period in which a person may wish to commit to a relationship. It’s as though they feel compelled to settle down and cooperate with someone else. It’s not always easy to make a relationship work, but something keeps telling that individual, “hey, maybe I should stay around and see if this can endure.” Saturn is a firm believer in keeping promises, and it isn’t interested in keeping things casual with anyone.
Keep a watch on Saturn if it is transiting the 1st, 3rd, 5th, 7th, 9th, or 11th house. All of these signs point to a period of increased interpersonal activity as well as a sense of being more connected to people. Saturn is on the related axis (i.e. the ascendant and descendant lines) while it is in the 1st or 7th house, therefore this is the most powerful relationship transit to be aware of. Saturn forms a harmonic trine and sextile to the ascendant and descendant lines while it is in the 3rd, 5th, 9th, and 11th houses, making relationships easier.
Saturn transiting the 1st and 7th houses also deals with your relationship with yourself, therefore it won’t always bring you a romantic partner. It is sometimes primarily focused on learning to love yourself better. Over the last few years, I’ve witnessed this a lot with Cancer rising people who have recently had Saturn and Jupiter in Capricorn transiting through their 7th house. I had anticipated them all to have had some sort of romantic experience, yet so many people claimed that nothing of the sort happened during the voyage.
This has a lot to do with the fact that there were other transits going on at the same time. If you’re an astrologer, it’s crucial to keep track of planetary movements that affect the same part of the chart at the same time. This could provide insight into why a transportation isn’t turning out the way you expected. Because the Saturn-Pluto conjunction occurred in the 7th house of Cancer Rising, there was a constraint involving partnerships. Then there were the eclipses in Cancer and Capricorn, with the North Node in Cancer transiting their 1st house, implying that they were more focused on being alone and releasing oneself from needing to rely on others. Rather than creating a partnership, it became more about self-discovery.
Saturn is making an aspect to the natal Venus. Another major relationship transit is about to occur. When Saturn is conjunct natal Venus, or even when it enters the same sign as the person’s natal Venus, I see strong relationships form. That isn’t to say that the square, opposition, and trine don’t have any effect; the conjunction is simply more potent. I wouldn’t pay any attention to the sextile because it does nothing.
When Saturn makes contact with Venus, the partnership may be strained, since Saturn is known for not allowing things to go smoothly. The connection, on the other hand, usually strengthens and emerges stronger than before.
Jupiter:
Jupiter spends around a year in each house and takes about 12 years to complete a full circumnavigation of the horoscope.
When Jupiter transits the 1st and 7th houses, it frequently provides relationship growth as well as optimism and expansion to one’s approach to all relationships. You’re more inclined to accept supportive people into your life who help you grow during these times, which typically includes a love relationship.
If you’re usually apprehensive about dating, Jupiter transiting your 7th house may encourage you to have an open mind and be more comfortable. It can also help to improve a current relationship. So, if you and your spouse have been experiencing some stress, Jupiter’s entry into the 7th house may help to relieve tension or perhaps actually free you from a confining marital scenario.
Jupiter transiting the 5th house can also bring up positive love experiences, although this normally requires other big relationship transits to be active at the same time. On its own, Jupiter in the 5th house offers up enjoyable dating encounters, but not so much committed relationships. It may also make someone feel more gregarious and outgoing, as well as encourage them to be more confident in their own skin.
When Jupiter is transiting through the 8th house, you may be more open to new sexual encounters and deeper closeness with someone. As a result, a relationship that begins when Jupiter is transiting the 8th house is likely to be more intense than one that begins when Jupiter is traversing the 7th house. Normally, transits to the eighth house are feared, but in this case, they prove to be beneficial. You must, however, be prepared to go deeper with someone. As a result, relationships that began with Jupiter transiting the 7th house and are shallow or not right in any manner may come to an end when Jupiter transits the 8th. The 8th house causes a break if you can’t progress to the next level with a companion.
Jupiter is making an aspect to the natal moon or Venus. When Jupiter is in the same sign as a person’s natal moon or Venus, it brings joy and optimism into their lives. As a result, in addition to feeling more social, the person may find themselves in a nice relationship. This transit is often sensed a few days before Jupiter enters the Moon or Venus sign, according to my observations. As a result, when Jupiter conjuncts natal Moon/Venus nears the end of its transit through the preceding sign, the relationship begins to solidify, laying the groundwork for Jupiter conjunct natal Moon/Venus to follow.
Eclipses:
Relationships are accelerated by eclipses, especially when they occur across the 1st and 7th house axis, or in the 5th house. Examine the houses where the North and South Nodes are transiting to see where eclipses are now occurring in your horoscope.
People will occasionally meet their potential partners, but nothing will happen right away. They may have a secret crush on each other, but the timing isn’t right or they don’t want to commit just yet. There could be some ambiguity about the link. Then a solar or lunar eclipse in someone’s 7th house happens, and it’s like, “Bam!” Their connection picks up speed, and they realize they want to be together.
Eclipses cause you to have startling realizations and bring the emotions you have for someone to the surface. An eclipse generally brings about a key turning point in a relationship, whether it’s getting together for the first time, getting engaged or married, or, in the worst-case scenario, breaking up. All of your emotions surface at the same time, and you want to do something about it.
Points for creativity If eclipses occur in the first, fifth, or seventh houses at the same time, a slower moving planet such as Jupiter or Uranus is also transiting these houses. An eclipse can aid in the activation of this planet’s power.
Eclipses in the same sign as the person’s natal Venus or Moon
This is similar to the eclipse explanation above in that it fosters growth in a person’s emotions and interpersonal relationships. An eclipse ignites a person’s need to connect with others, and I’ve seen that it usually results in a beneficial relationship.
The eclipse does not have to occur on the same degree as the person’s moon or Venus, but it must be in the same sign. Over the period of two years, eclipses usually occur in the same two signs. Eclipses in Leo and Aquarius, for example, occurred between 2017 and 2019. If someone has a Leo Venus, it’s crucial for them to pay attention to how a relationship has progressed over the length of the two-year eclipse cycle, not just with one eclipse.
Eclipses occur every six months, so a person may meet their future partner during the first set of eclipses in a pair of signs, then something may be developing by the second set, and by the third set, either the relationship will end if it isn’t right, or things will happily progress to the next level. So, if you hear about eclipses in your Moon or Venus sign, keep an eye on how specific relationships evolve over the next two years.
Secondary Progressed Moon:
Finally, we’ll look at the secondary advanced moon. The advanced moon advances one degree around the natal chart every month. The advanced chart must always be interpreted in conjunction with the natal chart. It is quite significant when the advanced moon crosses natal planets in a person’s birth chart. It’s also worth noting when it collides with other progressed planets travelling throughout the natal chart.
Because the advanced moon isn’t my go-to prediction technique, I don’t have much to say about it, but here are some common phases of the progressed moon that I’ve seen result in a better connection entering a person’s life.
In my horoscope, where do I find your soulmate?
By looking at the North Node of your Moon sign in your natal chart, you can find out about your soulmate. The ecliptic depicts Earth’s orbit in relation to the sky and the journey the sun takes as it travels past the stars in astrology.
According to astrology, where will I meet my future spouse?
If Jupiter is in the third house of your birth chart for males and Jupiter is in the third house for women, you are extremely likely to meet your husband/wife while communicating in your early school years or on routine excursions. It could also come from your siblings or neighbors.
Do twin flames’ birth charts resemble each other?
Exceptions, on the other hand, take precedence over rules in twin-flame partnerships. Libra’s twin flame is most likely Cancer, as both love and admire Libra. These two aren’t the most compatible zodiac signs, yet despite their opposition, they can meet each other’s demands.
Twin flames, contrary to common perception, do not have to have the same zodiac sign. They can also emerge from an unusual combination of astrological signs. To learn more about twin-flame zodiac signs, continue to the next section.
What are the two zodiac signs that are soul mates?
Your ideal companion will share your ambition for achievement and will encourage and support you along the way.
- Taurus. Cancer, Capricorn, and Scorpio are the ideal soulmates.
- Gemini. Capricorn, Virgo, and Pisces are the ideal soulmates.
- Cancer. Libra, Taurus, and Aquarius are the ideal soulmates.
Do you have your soulmate’s initial on your left thumb?
The left thumb soulmate craze has been going on for over a year, but every now and then, someone looking for love comes across it, shares it, and other people looking for love follow suit.
“Someone, usually your romantic or sexual partner, with whom you have a special bond, and whom you know and love very much,” according to the Cambridge Dictionary.
We’re not sure if this TikTok trend is accurate, but does your current partner’s initial match?
Is it possible to forecast marriage based on your birth chart?
Marriage astrology predictions can also tell you when you are most likely to marry. Jupiter stays in one zodiac sign for 13 months before moving on to the next. Your marriage year can be predicted based on Jupiter’s location in your horoscope.
Which planet is responsible for the breakup?
Love and relationship breakups are caused by planets transiting through the horoscope. Malefic planets cause breakups, and Rahu and Sun are other planets that cause breakups. Mangal dosh can also cause a breakup.
Planets in the horoscope that cause breakup:
- The conjunction of Saturn and Venus will result in the breakup of a relationship. Venus is important for love success, but if Venus is weak in your horoscope, it can lead to a split.
- If Rahu and Ketu have an effect on the 5th house lord in a kundli, the relationship will not end pleasantly.
- The 7th house is associated with marriage, however if Mars, Saturn, Rahu, or Ketu are weak in this house, marriage will be difficult.
- Moon is the ruler of feelings, emotions, and thoughts in astrology. When malefic planets Rahu, Ketu, and the moon align in the horoscope, it can lead to a breakup.
- Your love relationship will come to an end if the Moon is weak in the 6th, 8th, or 12th house in your kundli.
Is a three-month relationship considered long?
It’s all too easy to get caught up in the rush of lovey-dovey sentiments that come with dating a new person. While you should cherish those times, relationship experts say the first three months of dating might reveal whether your new relationship is genuine or has a shelf life.
Every couple progresses through the phases of love at their own speed. However, the average length of the first stage of a relationship is three months. Toni Coleman, LCSW, a psychotherapist and relationship counselor, recommends making the change from “casually dating” to “exclusive” at that time. However, this fluctuates depending on how much time you spend together and how far you are separated.
According to Coleman, “losing interest” isn’t the only reason why some couples can’t seem to get past the 90-day mark. “It’s not so much that they’ve lost interest in each other as it is that they’ve decided that this isn’t a relationship they want to engage more in and deepen,” she says. “They don’t think the relationship, connection, attractiveness, or interest is strong enough.”
So, will your new relationship last beyond the first 90 days? According to specialists, there are 11 symptoms that your relationship will not continue more than three months.
It’s difficult to accept that the person you’re seeing isn’t willing to put in the effort necessary to be in a serious relationship with you. “You can’t keep someone interested if they’re not,” Coleman says. Why squander your time, anyway?