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Keep your eye on Venus
When the Sun transits through the signs Venus rules Taurus and Libra Venus is not only a love power tool when retrograde, but also when the Sun transits through the signs Venus rules. This happens every year around April/May and September/October, making these months ideal for contacting an ex (and no, we don’t mean stalking them or leaving cat and rainbow pictures on their Facebook page).
Look up the exact dates the Sun will transit Taurus and Libra, signs of stability and relationships, on an astrological calendar, and then plan your relocation. During this time, send a casual note suggesting you meet for coffee or a cocktail. Then dress to impress and appear to be on top of the world. Your ex will be more open to recognizing what they’re missing if you project an outward image of confidence and vigor.
Watch the Moon
The Moon, which governs emotions, is a fast-moving planet. It spends around 2.5 days in each sign, providing a constantly shifting flow of new emotional energy. If you wish to use sex as a weapon, look for the Moon to pass through loving signs like Taurus or Libra, or passionate Scorpio. When the Moon is in business signs like Capricorn or Virgo, avoid approaching an ex.
Keep a watch on the Moon as it waxes and wanes, as you’ll have better luck with love while it waxes. And, given it’s more about new beginnings than recreating previous love, wait roughly 12 hours after the New Moon to make any major decisions.
How likely is it that an ex-lover will return?
Ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends do resurface. They do it on a regular basis. Following conducting research, we discovered that approximately 30% of people receive their ex-partners back after a separation. However, only 15% of those 30 percent stay together in a good relationship. After getting back together, the remaining 15% of couples break up again.
The crucial thing is that the 15% of people who stay together in a stable relationship don’t just wait for their ex to return. They aggressively addressed the issues that led to the separation, resolved them, and progressed as individuals. In fact, rather than waiting for their ex to return, they often sought out to them.
I’d like you to pay attention to how such questions make it appear as if you have no control over the outcome.
It’s as if everything hinges on your ex. You will be waiting for your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend if they decide to return.
As though you’re a nice, cuddly plush animal who has nothing better to do but wait for your owner to return home and offer you some love.
Instead of asking yourself these questions, I want you to consider it from a different perspective.
If you want your ex back, instead of waiting for them to return, I want you to take action and figure out how you can get them back.
You are not a helpless plush toy. You are a human being with the ability to influence the trajectory of your life in a variety of ways.
You have the power to make decisions and perform acts that will shape the course of your romantic life.
You don’t just sit around waiting for your ex to return. You can take steps to improve your chances of reuniting with your ex in a healthy relationship. And if they don’t return, you can take steps to move on from them and find someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved.
“What Can I Do To Get My Ex Back And Keep Them In A Healthy Relationship?” instead of “Will My Ex Come Back?”
(If you want your boyfriend back, read this article, and if you want your girlfriend back, read this article.)
Reveal how Astrology can help you get your love back
Love may be excruciatingly painful, especially when the person you desire has walked out the door. But if you weren’t so preoccupied with feeling sorry for yourself, you could focus on getting your ex back. But how do you do it?
Of course, there are some ground restrictions. Practice patience, don’t be needy, keep your dignity, take care of your own life and looks, and simply try to be the amazing person your ex fell in love with in the first place. Often, simply going on with your life happily is enough to convince your ex to reconsider letting you go.
However, the importance of time cannot be overstated. And, if you truly want to improve your chances of reuniting with a long-lost love, enlist the help of Astrology. Some dates and situations are simply better for approaching an ex in the hopes of a happy ending than others.
Retrograde romance
When Mercury, the planet of communication, or Venus, the planet of love, are in retrograde, these are two of the ideal periods to rekindle a lost love. Persons become more contemplative and deliberate about relationships when these planets appear to spin backward, and people and ideas from the past are more likely to return. That means your ex is more likely to consider YOU as well.
Mercury and Venus both move retrograde three or four times a year, and Venus every 18 months. It’s not the best time to start a new relationship when Mercury is retrograde, but you’re more likely to see your exs looking back. They’ll be thinking if they made the right decision by breaking up with you, and depending on how you act (no complaining, stalking, begging, or crying), they could discover they did.
When Venus goes retrograde, which is currently in Leo from July 25 to September 6, 2015, it’s an even more potent time for old loves to return. This is the moment to keep your calm and wait for your ex to approach you don’t worry, if it’s meant to be, they’ll find you. When Venus Retrograde occurs, it is a powerful moment for forgotten love to resurface; simply focus on being your happy, confident self and see how your relationship evolves.
How can I reclaim my ex for good?
Steps to Take and Things to Say to Recover Your Ex
- Use the “No Contact” Rule (Yes, Even on Social Media)
- Develop into a person who you can be proud of.
- Make a few positive changes to your physical appearance.
- Make a few positive mental adjustments.
- Allow yourself some time to grieve.
Which planet is to blame for the breakup?
Love and relationship breakups are caused by planets transiting through the horoscope. Malefic planets cause breakups, and Rahu and Sun are other planets that cause breakups. Mangal dosh can also cause a breakup.
Planets in the horoscope that cause breakup:
- The conjunction of Saturn and Venus will result in the breakup of a relationship. Venus is important for love success, but if Venus is weak in your horoscope, it can lead to a split.
- If Rahu and Ketu have an effect on the 5th house lord in a kundli, the relationship will not end pleasantly.
- The 7th house is associated with marriage, however if Mars, Saturn, Rahu, or Ketu are weak in this house, marriage will be difficult.
- Moon is the ruler of feelings, emotions, and thoughts in astrology. When malefic planets Rahu, Ketu, and the moon align in the horoscope, it can lead to a breakup.
- Your love relationship will come to an end if the Moon is weak in the 6th, 8th, or 12th house in your kundli.
How can you tell whether your ex will never return?
1. Your ex told you to get over it. The only exception is if they continue to tell you this as a sort of reverse psychology in an attempt to reclaim your trust. Unfortunately, this happens more frequently than you might expect. This filthy method is taught by some selfish “get your ex back gurus.”
2. Your ex has blocked you on all social media platforms and is avoiding you. When someone blocks and avoids you, it’s likely that they dislike you and don’t want to interact with you. And, while your ex may be avoiding you on purpose, more often than not, they simply don’t like you.
3. Your ex deleted all of your social media accounts. In keeping with the indicator above, if your ex has unfollowed you on social media, erased photos of you, and entirely rebuilt their online profiles so that no trace of their previous relationships is visible, it’s safe to assume they don’t want you back. At least not right now.
4. If you happen to run across your ex, you’ll notice that they have a frosty demeanor. When you’re close, they don’t pay attention to you, don’t face you, smile, or even establish eye contact. It’s as if you don’t exist in their eyes.
5. When you invite your ex out, they keep finding excuses. If your ex keeps saying things like “maybe next week,” “I’m busy right now,” or “I have some errands I need to run,” there’s a strong probability they don’t want to be around you right now. Always pay attention to what your ex does, not what they say or mean.
6. Your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend is married or engaged to be married. Is there anything else I can say? Even if your ex is eager to cheat, avoid becoming involved in these scenarios. Keep your distance.
7. Your ex criticizes you in front of shared friends and relatives. While you could argue that hatred (as well as hostility, rage, and mocking) is a positive indicator because it isn’t the polar opposite of love (which is apathy), I disagree. Hate is hate is hate is hate is hate is hate is hate is hate is hate is You don’t want to be with folks who you despise. I don’t want to be around individuals I despise. Nobody likes to see someone they despise.
8. Your ex is unconcerned about you seeing someone else. If your ex doesn’t display any envy, aggravation, or concern when they learn or see that you’re dating someone else, they’re probably over you.
9. Your mutual friends advise you to stop the relationship. Mutual friends often have a good understanding of how you feel about your ex. Because their minds aren’t affected by emotions, they’ve most likely addressed your predicament. As a result, accept their advice if they tell you to go on.
10. Your belongings are returned by your ex. This practice is akin to destroying bridges. The fewer belongings your ex owns at your home, the less likely he or she will contact you about them.
11. You decide to travel large distances. If your ex moved far away from you, or vice versa (depending on the individual and their time and means), re-attraction is unlikely to succeed. To reignite your relationship with your ex, you must meet them in person and continue to meet them. This can’t possibly happen when you’re thousands of miles apart.
12. You want to be “just friends” with your ex. It’s possible that your ex will use friendship as a backdoor into another relationship, but this is uncommon, especially if you’re the dumpee. They usually propose the notion because they want to gently let you down and avoid further hurting you. (It’s important to note that if you want someone’s friendship back, you should never accept it.)
13. Your ex has started dating someone else. It could be a rebound if this happened soon after your split. If your ex discovered someone weeks or even months after you split up, it’s possible that they’ve moved on from you and are looking for someone new. In that instance, what would be my recommendation? Find someone fresh for yourself.
The plainly obvious is number fourteen. For example, your ex tells you word for word that they no longer love you, that they don’t want to communicate with you, that they don’t want to see you or go out with you, or that they don’t want to get back together.
15. You were in a bad relationship. If you and your ex split up because of physical or emotional abuse, manipulation, lying, infidelity, criminal conduct, or anything else poisonous, your chances of reconciliation are little to none (even more than they already are). That, though, is a positive thing. Nobody should go back to a terrible relationship.
16. You have a strong gut feeling about something. I realize I’m repeating what every other blog has said, but I had to include it in this list because many people underestimate its value. So you’re probably right if you sense your ex doesn’t want you back. Pay attention to your instincts.
Do dumpers return after a few months?
Let’s speak about why I’m so sure in saying that now that you’re relieved.
To be honest, I believe I’m one of the best individuals to address this because folks who have been dumped make up roughly 80% of my whole audience (which includes our websites, YouTube channel, and podcasts).
I’ve been doing this for nearly a decade, so there’s a reason for it: our success stories. We’ve helped a lot of dumpees reclaim their ex-partners, and you can find some inspiration on my YouTube channel by scrolling through my Success Stories playlist.
The playlist has around an hour-long interview with one of our success stories, in which I ask them exactly what they did to reclaim their ex.
I never go into these interviews searching for affirmation for my work; instead, they serve as a general learning opportunity for me.
About 90% of those success story videos are from the perspective of the dumpee, or someone who has been dumped by an ex, therefore the answer is a loud YES if you’re asking whether dumpers come back after a split.
What is the general average amount of time that they’ll come back?
Although we’ve shown that dumpers can return after a breakup, it’s definitely more useful to know what the average chances are.
Unfortunately, there isn’t much reliable research on ex-couples reuniting, but I was able to uncover a few reliable studies during the last 10 years, and here’s what I learned:
When you add up all of the credible studies on the ex recovery process and your odds of getting your ex back, you’ll find that there’s a 43.5 percent chance your ex will return without you having to do anything.
But does it indicate that if you do things correctly, you’ll have a good chance of succeeding? It isn’t, especially if you follow our recommendations and program.
Coach Anna and I have guided hundreds of people this year, and we have a 70% success rate!
This doesn’t necessary imply that they remained together in the long run; rather, it indicates that they reunited at some point.
Because these are folks who pay us to give them our entire attention, this isn’t necessarily a fair comparison. As a result, the overall success rate for ex-boyfriend healing is likely to be significantly lower than that figure.
Do Scorpios reconcile with their ex-partners?
A Scorpio will not only not contact an ex, but will also blame themselves for the split. It’s not that they won’t notice your flaws; they will undoubtedly be made aware of them. But they’ll be angry with themselves for not foreseeing these fatal defects in their relationships.
Do Virgos reconcile with their ex-lovers?
While Virgos aren’t famed for their amorous qualities, they are devoted to those they love. And if they find an opportunity to rekindle a relationship with someone they used to care about, they’re likely to take it.
Do Leos reconcile with their ex-partners?
A Leo will never forgive a former lover. They would only depart if they had never truly felt it in the first place or if they had been wronged.
If a Leo is offended, they will not only not forgive you, but they will also ensure that no one else in the country makes the same mistake.
Virgo: after everything you’ve put me through?
Before letting someone go, Virgo may be willing to forgive a million slights, but once they do, the chances of healing the damage are limited to none.
After a breakup, what is the three-month rule?
The three-month rule after a breakup simply states that all previously associated parties must wait three months before dating again. The purpose of this communal decree is to offer those concerned a break, some forewarning, and perhaps some leeway for forgiveness.