Wow. Okay. This series begins with the north node of Aries. This north node affects a lot of my clients who were born in 1986 and 1987. Everyone with this nodal axis is not in this age group. It isn’t finished. This nodal axis will cause everyone’s nodes to express themselves differently.
To begin with, the nodes are not simple. When you touch a section of the chart, it flinches. In the nodes, there is a lot of fear. Unless you’re dealing with concerns of fear and shortage, they don’t necessarily advise you where to go. They don’t provide you advice on how to succeed. That is not their purpose. The nodes are concerned with survival.
We’re not talking about travelling from the south to the north node when we talk about nodes. We’re not talking about evolution here. We’re discussing two points on the graph that deal with fear.
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Assumptions about Aries north node/Libra south node
Many of the assumptions made about this nodal axis are based on the stereotype of the homemaker. It’s this belief that people with the Libra south node are shy little things who never speak up for themselves or live for themselves and need to get some independence in order to be free. This isn’t correct.
People born under the sign of Aries have a strong sense of independence and are often well-informed. They frequently have Jupiter or Aries as their ruling planet. Many of them were raised without much parental supervision. Many of them had to figure out how to exist on their own early on. This is not a group of people who are highly protected, as clichs about white middle-class women suggest. These are individuals that had to work things out on their own.
The combative aspect of Libra is lost in traditional delineations of this nodal axis. This occurs because Libra is frequently misunderstood since it is stereotyped according to gender standards. Gender is often how Aries north node and Libra south node people process a lot of their security, but gender appears different for everyone.
People with the Libra south node have a tendency to believe that they desire to win. This is due to the fact that people expect things to be competitive even when they aren’t. Sure, some cis straight women see winning as gaining the attention of an unavailable male, but this isn’t the case for everyone. The Libra south node must comprehend that the tactics of self-harm that capitalism has taught them are often methods of self-harm.
As you can see, Librans on the south node aren’t all kept housewives. People aren’t allowed to walk all over them. They can be in positions of authority while still feeling confined by the nodal axis, and they will chew you out. It’s not about conquering when it comes to healing.
Security Issues
In Libra, the south node foreshadows judgment. People born under the Libra south node are frequently taught that how they compare to others or how other people see them says more about who they are than who they think they are. There are instances when a large number of siblings compete for the attention of their parents. Even when Libra south node tries valiantly to garner their attention, the parents are sometimes inaccessible.
The feeling of acceptance is something that the Libra south node craves, at times passionately. This is because the Libra south node has spent a long period feeling out of place. They are really vulnerable in this world. This is why the Libra south node is prone to scouring the globe for someone to save them.
Saviorism can take place in a variety of situations. Libra’s south node may be on the lookout for a business alliance, an institution, or a career. They are looking for something that looks to be validated by socially measured ways of judging a thing when they search for these items. Again, Librans with the south node feel out of place in some way. They believe that until they have something on their arm that camouflages them well enough to pass through society, no one will accept them.
People with the Libra south node do not feel normal because they are trapped in a worldview that believes competition is the only way to save them. They have the impression that they are being judged by a third party. They are terrified of being judged by their peers, as well as of being too noticeable. They are concerned that others would believe they are attempting to be more unique or superior than others.
The south node in Libra frequently suffers from impostor syndrome as a result of this. They frequently work in novel methods, which makes it difficult for them to persuade others to understand or validate what they’re doing. However, no amount of social approval will ever be enough to repair a Libra south node.
Fears
People with the North Node in Aries are afraid of being alone. This may not always have to do with gender roles, although it can. The true reason Aries south node people fear being alone is that they believe they are abnormal and that if they are cut off from society, they will drift away and become hopeless, “crazy” people.
People with the Aries north node are scared of their stigmas or the things that cause them to be stigmatized.
People born under the sign of Aries have an obsession with their north node. They’re artists, which implies they’re fascinated by strange things that no one else considers. Whatever it is, the Aries north node doesn’t want you to know about it. They’re preoccupied with the end of the world, hideous manga, and shipping routes. This is because the Aries north node wants you to like them, and they believe you would not like them if you knew what they desired.
It is difficult for Aries north node to be in a disagreement with someone because they believe that in order to win, they must alter the other person’s mind about something. Because there may have been a lot of repressed conflict in their home life, arguments are highly frustrating for Aries north node. As a result, the Aries north node has a secret desire for an end-all clash that will end all conflicts regarding a single issuethey work diligently to prepare for this never-to-occur event, believing that if they can come out on top at the proper time, they will triumph. After that, everyone will be able to live in peace.
The problem is that the end of all fighting never arrives. No one wants to fight them, and the more you battle them, the deeper you both burrow into your own corners. No one’s mind is ever changed by fighting. Because they place so much emphasis on gaining security by winning the final confrontation, the Aries north node may be dissatisfied.
Healing and Growth
Many Aries north node Libra south node people thrive and grow after breakups, which I believe is the source of the widespread stereotype of the stuck partner who just needs to break free. However, it is not a relationship that binds Librans in the south node. Instead, it’s the belief that intensifying confrontation will result in (their) victory.
When Aries north node people realize that they don’t require others to justify their obsessions, they recover and progress. They don’t have to persuade anyone to change their minds. They don’t require that last battle with their boss, lover, or friend, which they occasionally fantasize about. They don’t need vengeance to feel comfortable expressing their rage.
The fact that Libra south node people are so excellent at conflict is frequently what keeps them caught in this cycle of fear. They usually win when they fight because they’re so skilled at looking at things from several perspectives. They’re incredibly skilled at fighting.
People born under the sign of Aries are attempting to figure out when to fight and when to back off. What makes this difficult is that persons with the Aries north node are often drawn to people who hold opposing viewpointsthose who are eager to battle with them in order to reproduce the winning-and-harmonizing dynamic. It’s difficult for Aries north node people to walk away from a confrontation that’s brewing, especially if the person they’re fighting is extremely hot. The Libra south nodes are trying to win over that individual.
Walking away from a confrontation that they can win is what heals the Aries north node. They don’t grow when they win fights because the scarcity mentality fuels the same scarcity. They flourish when they take back control of their lives and cultivate their creativity and joy. They mature when they establish safety by deciding when to engage in conflict and when not to.
In astrology, what does N node mean?
The lunar nodes (also known as the Nodes of Fate or the Nodes of Destiny) are the locations in the sky where the Moon and the Sun meet. This occurs a few times a year, during which we encounter eclipses, an astrological occurrence. The nodes indicate which spiritual avenues we should pursue and which we should abandon, as well as the type of energy we are working with. The nodes transit through each axis during the duration of a year and a half (the nodes are always in two opposite signsfor example, if the North Node is in Leo, we will also be dealing with the South Node in Aquarius).
The Moon’s lunar nodes are separated into two categories in astrology: the North Node and the South Node. Both current life (the North Node) and your previous lifetimes convey a story of fate and destiny (the South Node). The lunar nodes change signs every year and a half. The various placements and signs in our horoscopes reveal our past and present fate. (If we accept our karmic teachings, the past will rule the future.) (I have goosebumps!)
Based on both our particular birth charts’ nodes and the transiting nodes that affect the collective as a whole, the nodes are also how we know what will happen to us during eclipses.
The North Node is known as Ratu (Dragon’s Head) and the South Node is known as Ketu (Dragon’s Tail) in Vedic astrology. To cut a long mythical narrative short, a demon desired immortality and deceived the gods into giving it to him, which enraged them because he was not in line for such powers. Their punishment was to grant him immortality, with both past (Ketu) and future (Rahu) aspects of himself always present. He couldn’t get away from himself or what he’d done.
In Aries, where is the north node?
You’ve come to learn about yourself because your North Node is in Aries or the first house. One of the most liberating north nodes is this one. It’s giving you permission to know yourself and actively urging you to do so. Know what you require, what you desire, and what you truly desire. You must connect with your soul’s actual desires, free of any outside influence, not what you think you should want or what others think you should want.
Ask yourself this question on a regular basis: what kinds of activities would I secretly LOVE to do or try if no one could see or criticize me? And what if success was a foregone conclusion?
You didn’t get to put yourself first in a previous incarnation with Libra South Node energy (or early on in this life). This is the South Node energy of a major people-pleaser and someone who plays a supportive role, always catering to others and putting their needs ahead of their own. Those same energetics were present when you entered this existence. It’s possible that you grew up in a family where folks weren’t always emotionally healthy. Perhaps they were prone to rage outbursts, and the atmosphere was unpredictable. So you learnt to tiptoe around, always gauging the temperature of others in order to get a sense of who and what you’re dealing with. There are numerous possibilities for how your previous life may have played out, but you won’t be able to always put other people’s feelings ahead of your own in this lifetime. There will be no more people pleasing. You’ll feel frustrated and stuck as a result. You must spend time alone with yourself in order to discover who you are and how readily your habits can alter depending on who you spend time with. Discover what makes you happy in life and make it a priority. Without feeling guilty or ashamed, learn to say no to people or cancel plans. The universe wishes for you to be more self-centered. And by selfish, I don’t mean live for others or constantly anticipating their reactions to your decisions.
Your Libra South Node, or 7th house South Node, brings you gifts. It is controlled by Venus, the goddess of love. This distinguishes you as a lover. You’re a good negotiator and mediator, and you’re great at managing social situations and relationships. You’re extremely sensitive to other people’s sentiments. You are able to perceive all sides of a subject and assist others in developing compassion for one another. You notice that awkward, uncomfortable person at a party who has no one to chat to and you go out of your way to make them feel more at ease. You are a priceless asset to so many people in your life, and you probably have no idea how much you benefit them.
You won’t abandon your Libra gifts while being more intentional about embracing your Aries or 1st house NN. They simply take on a new, healthier appearance. For example, if your SN is out of balance, you may be far too people pleasing. You’re far too preoccupied with what others think of you. You can consult 100 different individuals while deciding on your future steps in life, but all you need to do is go inward and listen to yourself. Stepping into Aries energy will automatically bring those south node tendencies into equilibrium. But you’ll keep your diplomatic and thoughtful demeanor. While prioritizing YOU, you’ll always have it with you. You’ve come to be unapologetic about who you are. And more daring, pioneering, and taking risks. You’ll learn to say no to things you don’t want, even if you think it will cause someone inconvenience. You’ll master the art of setting boundaries and recognize that you’re not responsible for everyone else’s emotions or experiences. You’ll acquire a strong sense of self and guard your energy wisely. You’ll become very aware of your own body and emotions, and you’ll prioritize them over others’. And you’ll see that when you honor yourself and show up as the genuine you, everyone benefits. When you’re being your real self, the most gratifying, healthy, and truly compatible relationships (a Libra SN desire) happen easily.
What does the north node represent?
The North Node is the most important node in the network. This Node represents the future and what fate has in store for you, depending on the lessons you’ve learned in the past so it’s only natural that the attributes connected with your North Node’s sign elicit some fear of the unknown in you!
Is the north node your life’s calling?
Your life goal is encoded in the north and south nodes of the moon, according to astrology.
In the chart, the lunar nodes are immediately opposite each other. They aren’t planets, but rather mathematical points on the chart that fall in two zodiac signs that are diametrically opposed. (For instance, if your north node is in Capricorn, your south node will be in Cancer, and vice versa.) The lunar nodes can assist us figure out what we’re supposed to do with our lives. What is my purpose in being here, and what is my mission? In a previous life, who was I?
What are the meanings of my north and south nodes?
In astrology, the lunar nodes reflect your karmic destiny for this incarnation. Your prior incarnations and the gifts you’ve brought in are revealed through the south node. The north node represents the new path you’re on this lifetime. They are always in houses and signs that are in opposition to one other.
What does Aries’ South Node signify?
I encounter a lot of people in their early twenties who have the North Node in Libra and the South Node in Aries, and I also meet a lot of people in their forties who have the same nodal axis. I’m writing this in 2021, and I’ve discovered that people with the North Node in Libra have been particularly heavily struck by the quarantine. It’s been challenging for all of us, but it’s been particularly difficult for people with the South Node in Aries and an inherent sense of isolation to negotiate the alienation of quarantine.
Why? Not because those with the North Node in Libra and the South Node in Aries have a tougher time being alonethey find it all too easy. They find it far too simple. Loneliness is normalized to the point where it is the only reality one can anticipate from the world.
People with the Libra North Node and the Aries South Node anticipate to be outcasts. They’ve learnt to rely on themselves as a survival strategy, thus they expect alienation.
There’s also a significant variance in how the North Node in Libra and the South Node in Aries appear in various age groups. People in their twenties with the North Node in Libra are more likely to have Chiron in Libra and Pluto in Sagittarius than those in their forties. With the North Node in Libra, people in their forties are more likely to have Chiron in Aries and Pluto in Libra.
During this pandemic, many people in their forties with the North Node in Libra have experienced an increase in their social anxiety. They are concerned that others will not accept them as they are, that they will have failed their friends, and that others will not be able to notice or appreciate the changes they have discovered within themselves. Because their Pluto is in Libra, people in their forties often feel like they aren’t doing relationships right, and they fear that no partnership will satisfy their yearnings. When Chiron is in Aries, they are scared that there is something about themselves that will sabotage any relationship.
Individuals who turned 24 and 25 during the North Node in Libra quarantine shared some of the same sensations, but older people are often more alienated than younger people. Many people with the North Node in Libra are navigating the world as adults for the first time, attempting to figure out who they are when everything is on lockdown. They’re attempting to form adult friendships while adhering to the same obstacles that adult friendships always provide (awkwardness, fear of vulnerability, lack of time), but with a stay-at-home mandate.
Chiron is copresent with North Node in a lot of twenty-somethings with North Node in Libra and South Node in Aries. Many of these individuals believed they were too different from their peers and would never be able to blend in.
If persons with the North Node in Libra and the South Node in Aries have an inherited sense of loneliness, they also have an inherent sense of hope for connection. Because they wish for their hope of connection to exist as a protected object, Libra North Node Aries South Node people are afraid of connection, and they are often upset when they do not feel connected. And they’re learning that hope, far from being fragile, thrives not when it’s sheltered, but when it’s tested.
Assumptions about Libra North Node Aries South Node
A lot of the prevalent ideas about Libra North Node and Aries South Node are rooted in hegemonic gender ideology, comparable to Aries North Node Libra South Node delineations. Boys must be boys, and Aries is a boy. Libra is a female sign, and females are reserved and delicate. A “bull in a china shop” is how I’ve seen Libra North Node Aries South Node characterized. It’s sometimes assumed that the Aries South Node is too obnoxious, raucous, and self-centered to know how to get along with others.
However, Libra isn’t for everyone. The North Node Aries and the South Node Aries have been socialized to be men. It is not acceptable for everyone to be disrespectful. It is not permitted for everyone to be self-centered or even to be aware of one’s own self.
It’s true that having nodes regulated by Venus and Mars means that security worries can occasionally manifest as feelings about gender, but gender isn’t a diagnosis you have to carry around with you forever.
People with the Libra North Node and the Aries South Node are concerned about whether or not they are worthy of connection. They are perplexed as to why anyone would want to be their buddy and if others are capable of comprehending them. They take pride in the fact that no one ever gets them, but they also feel a great deal of shame about it. They are worried that they might betray themselves.
While doubts of worthiness and connection can arise as a result of gender dynamics, they can also arise as a result of job anxieties, friendships, and other situations. Gender can have a role in Libra North Node Aries South Node, but only because gender shapes so much of your experience of the world.