Let’s start by addressing the superstition that says you shouldn’t purchase a deck for yourself. And now for the quick, succinct response: Of course you may get your own deck of tarot cards!
I went and bought my first deck and nothing happened to me! I mean, I experienced no negative things…?
If you wait about hoping someone will give you a deck, you almost certainly have a lengthy wait in front of you. I have no idea where any of these superstitions came from, but that is exactly what they are.
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How can I pick a tarot card just for me?
Which spread are you going to use? How in-depth do you want to make your response? The level of complexity of the insight will increase as more cards are drawn. I recommend a three or five-card spread as a general rule to provide clarity without causing confusion. I advise reading each card according to its position in the spread before observing how all of the cards come together to create a larger narrative that is rich with deep significance. The question of whether or not to read card reversals is a contentious one within the Tarot community. (When a card is dealt face-down, it is known as a reversal.)
Reversals draw attention to certain things and might identify the “contrary to the upright meaning of the card. In some instances, a reversed card doesn’t dramatically alter the definition of the overall card; instead, it indicates a deficiency of that energy. In other circumstances, it could mean something quite unrelated or nothing at all. Because of the possibility for misunderstanding, I advise you to concentrate on the upright meanings of each card and, as you become more familiar with this terminology, explore the reverse meanings as you continue your Tarot exploration. You will confidently be able to determine if a reversal should be taken seriously or ignored as you gain experience and become more in touch with your intuition.
In my experience, veering away from the topic of your inquiry is the best course of action “Keep it more general and limited to yes/no. rather than asking “Will I get the job promotion? usage “What roadblocks are in my way as I try to advance my career? By posing your query in this way, you encourage deeper understanding and contemplation through a richer response and provide a viewpoint that would be missed with a simple “yes” or “no.”
What should I understand before purchasing a Tarot deck?
If you believe that the images are more in keeping with your own artistic taste, then you must choose this specific deck. The specific art utilized in the cards has certain messages in them. There are many different styles on the market, and none are better than the others. Make this a personal choice and pay close attention to what your instincts are telling you because it all depends on the impact it has on the user. It’s also crucial to explore each type of deck and find as many visual samples as you can to learn more about them.
How are tarot cards charged?
Leave your deck in a sacred location where you can “knead (shuffle) it each hour, giving it your magical power with your hands, for one waking day, much as you would a loaf of rising bread.” The greatest time to use this charge is when you’re taking a day off at home or in a retreat.
After a breakup
Draw one card for each of the following inquiries if you’ve recently broken up with someone and want to know more about the reason or determine whether you’ll get back together:
- How energetic is the partnership right now?
- What caused the divide in the first place?
- What do they really think of me right now?
- What do they intend for me right now?
- What kind of relationship will this be in the future?
- Which action is ideal for me to take right now?
When job searching
You can use this spread to explore what kind of career guidance the tarot can offer if you’re feeling uncertain about your career path or thinking about a new employment. Draw one card once more for each query.
- How active am I in my career right now?
- What challenge must I overcome?
- What is my calling in life?
- How can I follow this calling more closely?
- What should I do to prepare for the upcoming month?
When deciding between two options
This spread can highlight the benefits and drawbacks of each option, guiding you toward the best decision if you’re using tarot to pick between two possibilities (two job offers, two apartments, perhaps a love triangle???). Getting the deal Per card, ask one question.
- What is the fundamental cause of this fork in the road?
- What is the likely result of choosing option A?
- What is the most likely result for option B?
- What more should I take into account that was overlooked?
- What’s the best thing I can do right now?
When something is off with a friend
If you’re concerned about the state of a friendship or feel like something is wrong but are unable to pinpoint the cause, you might be interested in seeing what conclusions and solutions this spread offers. Ask one question per card, once more, I repeat.
- What makes this friendship so crucial?
- What led to this sudden change in tone, and why?
- What has changed, in my friend’s opinion?
- What can I do to make this matter more urgent?
- What is the future of this friendship?
- What should I do at this moment?
Questions you don’t really want answered
Even though it might seem apparent, it’s advisable to refrain from asking the tarot cards questions that you aren’t prepared to hear the answers to. That’s because answers to these questions can reveal information you’re just not quite ready to hear.
“Tarot can definitely come off as offensive if you’re not willing to hear the truth or consider an opposing opinion. Tarot reading Nicole Fortunaso
According to tarot reader and life coach Nicole Fortunaso, “tarot may truly come out as offensive if you are not willing to hear the truth of the problem or look at an alternate viewpoint.” She advises analyzing why you’re reacting the way you are in order to reflect on how to effectively address the underlying problem if you ask the question and aren’t satisfied with the response.
What should you do initially while using a Tarot deck?
2. Position your deck during the New or Full Moon. Imagine the moon’s beams touching and anointing your brand-new deck if you think in the power of the moon. But if you’re from a place like the Philippines, you need to be careful! Moisture and unexpected downpours of rain can harm your priceless new cards. I occasionally place my deck near my window so that it has a slight outdoor sensation without being dangerous.
After some extensive use, this is a great way to “clear your deck.” It feels excellent to let the moon refresh your deck symbolically. You can also encircle your deck with your favorite stones if you have a collection of crystals.
3. Commence utilizing it for noteworthy events. A fresh deck may spice up any celebration, whether you choose to use it exclusively for Beltane or Ostara in accordance with the pagan Wheel of the Year, or you want to infuse your birthday with extra charm.
You might even limit the times when you utilize your deck. You may, for instance, create a special tarot deck exclusively for readings about the moon cycle or readings that entail shadow work.
On the other hand, I could use my recently acquired OG Starchild Tarot to inspire an altar full of celestial-themed accessories, including twinkle lights, crystals in luminous yellows, dark, night-sky blacks, and cool blues, a cloth decorated with constellations, and perhaps putting The Star card out and on display.
5. Put your brand-new tarot deck beneath your pillow as you sleep. Absolute superstition, this The night before a huge exam, I used to do this to simulate the information seeping into my subconscious (lol, reassure me that I’m not the only one). You can truly, physically bond and spend time with your tarot deck by sleeping with it beneath your pillow. And why not try it if you believe all that woo woo about images actually penetrating your subconscious?
When ought I to purchase tarot cards?
There aren’t any hard-and-fast guidelines for when or if you should have a tarot reading. To commemorate important occasions (such as birthdays, breakups, New Year’s Eve, etc.), many individuals like purchasing one. But in my more than 25 years of tarot reading, I’ve discovered the following points are ideal for letting you know when I THINK tarot is the answerand when I DON’T think tarot is the answer (since, yes, tarot is not always the answer!).
How are tarot cards activated?
What to Do First:
- Get out your tarot deck.
- The cards are in your hand.
- “Knock or tap the pile of cards numerous times while holding them in your palm to disseminate your energy throughout the deck.
- Shuffle the cards completely.
- The cards are divided into three heaps, which are subsequently reassembled into one pile.
Do tarot cards need to be blessed?
Therefore, it would appear that mastering the art of cleansing tarot cards is something you might wish to perform before purchasing a new deck, if you already own one, or if you’re giving a new or used deck to someone else. Actually, if the cards are a gift for someone else, it’s a good idea to cleanse, bless, or activate them. Tarot cards are typically offered as gifts, according to Tarra. Before giving the cards to a new owner, perform a protection ritual on them and clean them to remove any strange energies they may have picked up along the route.
There is a legend.
Myth: Purchasing your own deck of tarot cards brings bad luck. And I suppose giving my mother a cursed one would be extremely impolite of me. So Tarra gave me a royal blue mesh bag of goodies after dinner and wisely explained how to clean them, and I promptly forgot all about it until we spoke again this morning.