Is my husband having an affair? Will my father’s condition go better? Does my daughter plan to be hitched this year? How frequently do these questions, where the customer wants to know what is going on in another person’s life, come up? And as a Tarot reader, how have you reacted?
Readings regarding people who aren’t there or who haven’t granted permission to be included in a reading are known as “third party readings” in the realm of tarot. Humans frequently ask questions of this nature because we value our relationships with people and are curious about their lives. The ethics and accuracy of third party readings, however, are two major problems. In this article, I examine each of these concerns in more detail and offer some suggestions for how you might react positively to a request for a third party reading.
The majority of (ethical) Tarot readers abide by a code of ethics, and this code of ethics frequently makes mention of third party readings. On the grounds that it is an invasion of privacy, many readers believe that reading for a third party or for someone who has not granted consent for a reading is immoral. It resembles snooping, reading someone else’s correspondence, or listening in on their discussion. It’s just not ‘right,’
It’s not difficult to play the ethics card when asked a question like, “Is my husband cheating on me?,” and refuse to read more. What happens, though, if someone asks you, “Will my father’s health get better? The customer is genuinely concerned for the other person and wants to know that they will be okay, not to spy on their parent or pry into his personal life. It might be a little more challenging to flatly decline in this situation. It might still be inappropriate to read about this particular subject, though.
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In tarot, what is a third party situation?
The Fool was the card I drew for my daily card this morning, so I chose to attempt something a little different for today’s post. Even if you missed the live broadcast, you can still see the replay because I did it on Facebook. I’m discussing third party tarot readings in this broadcast, or readings that are focused on someone other than the seeker. A third party reading would occur, for instance, if you asked someone else what they think of you or about their personality.
I won’t deny that this broadcast contained some rambling. There are some priceless nuggets hidden among the rambling, so don’t worry. Learn the dos and don’ts of third party readings by watching this broadcast’s replay. I also go into great detail in the video outlining a tarot spread you can use. Below is a picture of that spread.
Can one perform a tarot reading on their own?
Is it feasible for a beginner to perform Tarot spreads on themselves? Yes! It most certainly is. Tarot is a technique that aids in deepening our understanding of the present moment, honoring our intuition, and predicting future possibilities.
Infuse the cards with your energy
Spend some time with your tarot deck to imbue it with your energy before you begin plucking cards. The creator of Soul Cards, Kristine Fredheim, advises giving them a good shuffle while imagining or stating your name and birthdate. You might also think about sleeping with your cards under your pillow if you want to get really close to them.
Do you offer Tarot readings for groups?
A guided meditation for setting intentions always precedes group tarot readings. The tarot reader will then explain the symbolism and potential meanings of the cards that are selected in response after each participant has the chance to pose their question (either silently or aloud to the group). Depending on the size of your group, the length of each participant’s reading varies, but you should normally allow 10 to 15 minutes per person.
It can be inspiring to listen to someone else read, as well as to unwind in your group’s support and have others listen to you read. In group settings, individual tarot readings frequently overlap, and this experience will undoubtedly inspire discourse for a long afterwards. It’s a special approach to deepen your relationships with both yourself and others.
You can also choose to have participants sit with the reader one-on-one so that the group rotates through rather than partaking in the complete experience for those that would prefer a little more privacy. To make the most of your time, we will send multiple tarot readers for groups bigger than 10.
Which tarot card connotes adultery?
Unfortunately, infidelity and cheating are frequent occurrences in romantic partnerships. So it should come as no surprise that readers frequently give predictions about whether or not a partner has been unfaithful. Sometimes there is no cause for concern, but other times the cards show that the seeker’s partner has been acting dishonestly.
This list of “Tarot Cards for Cheating and Infidelity” is merely a suggestion from me. Keep in mind that receiving one of these cards does not necessarily indicate that your partner has been unfaithful. Use your gut feeling and follow it.
of Pentacles
The 2 of Pentacles frequently appears in readings that involve infidelity. The 2 of Pentacles frequently represents a juggling act, which is the reason why.
The two of pentacles may indicate that your partner is dividing their attention between other lovers. They can be under stress as a result of trying to divide their resources between you and another person. Therefore, the 2 of Pentacles will appear in love readings where there has been cheating.
The High Priestess
There are two factors that make The High Priestess a classic adultery Tarot card, and both of them are included in The High Priestess’ primary meanings.
The High Priestess is a card of intuition, to start with. Usually, it suggests that you trust and pay attention to your gut. If you think your partner is cheating on you, this card may indicate that your suspicions are accurate.
Second, The High Priestess can also stand in for things that are unknown, obscured, or kept a secret. Because of this, it is clear that this card could indicate that your partner is concealing information from you, which is a regular occurrence in adultery.
of Swords
The usual card representing infidelity is the 7 of Swords. In actuality, dishonesty is one of its primary meanings. It represents someone doing something they shouldn’t be doing (and trying to get away with it). In your Tarot reading, the 7 of Swords clearly indicates that your companion is telling you lies.
The Tower
Most people’s worst dread is being unfaithful. The Tower, the card of destruction and shock, is a Tarot card that frequently denotes infidelity in a relationship, thus it should come as no surprise.
The Tower typically stands for the unexpected. Therefore, it is unlikely that your partner would cheat on you with someone you would ordinarily suspect. You won’t suspect who they are cheating with until it’s too late.
I should clarify, though, that The Tower doesn’t always indicate that your partner has cheated on you, especially if you have already come to the conclusion that they have. This card, which represents surprises and shocks, can indicate that your partner is likely hiding something else from you that you aren’t even aware of, rather than actively cheating on you.
The Fool
The Fool can occasionally stand for unexpected or outrageous behavior. This card will show up when a person presents themselves as independent even though they have domestic duties to attend to. Essentially, The Fool can suggest that your sweetheart is free of the bonds of a relationship in their thinking. As a result, if your spouse doesn’t act like the relationship is serious, they might cheat on you.
Knight of Wands
When you feel that the Knight symbolizes your relationship in your Tarot reading and ask explicitly about adultery, The Knight of Wands may occasionally suggest that your mate is unfaithful.
High sex drive is a reputation of the Knight of Wands. While this doesn’t always indicate infidelity, it does suggest that your boyfriend has a curious gaze. It’s not a good omen if your readings seem particularly depressing and the Knight of Wands appears.
Queen of Swords
Another court card that can signify adultery and unfaithfulness is the Queen of Swords. The Queen of Swords, on the other hand, represents the “other woman,” while the Knight of Wands represents your partner.
The Queen of Swords frequently indicates the presence of someone who wants to hurt you or who wishes evil things on you in Tarot readings. People who meddle in your romantic life might also be represented by the Queen of Swords. It is reasonable to interpret this card as a warning that someone is getting close to your partner and intends to ruin your relationship.
of Swords
The 3 of Swords is another Tarot card that has historically been connected to cheating and infidelity, much as the 7 of Swords. Where there were once two swords, there are now three, signifying the entry of another person into your partnership.
The Three of Swords has traditionally been associated with heartbreak and frequently denotes the traumatic breakdown of a relationship. That doesn’t necessarily mean that your relationship will end, but it may indicate that you have a difficult path ahead of you.
The Magician
The Magician Tarot card symbolizes manifestation, fresh commercial endeavors, and your initiating of things. The Magician is associated with many good things. Magicians are enjoyable and exciting, but they can have a sinister side.
The Magician is occasionally a card of deceit and cunning. The Magician is also traditionally seen as a representation of a con man. A person in your life may not be as forthcoming as you would like, thus this is a sign.
The Moon
The Moon merits a spot in my list of the top 10 Tarot cards that represent adultery and cheating since it is another card that is typically connected with dishonesty. In fact, I would suggest that The Moon is the card on this list that I would consider to be most likely to indicate infidelity.
Darkness can be understood in divination as a representation of things that are concealed from you. Even having nighttime dreams can indicate that things are not as they seem. It is evident that if you don’t know everything about your relationship, something isn’t right.
The Moon can represent intuition and secrets, making it comparable to The High Priestess. When adultery is present, the seeker typically already has a gut feeling that something is amiss in their relationship, which is why they are looking for infidelity in a Tarot reading. The Moon frequently denotes that you already know the reality and are simply waiting for confirmation from your Tarot cards of your assumptions.
That concludes our discussion of Tarot cards that stand for infidelity and cheating. A free copy of Tarot for Beginners is available here:
Questions you don’t really want answered
Even though it might seem apparent, it’s advisable to refrain from asking the tarot cards questions that you aren’t prepared to hear the answers to. That’s because answers to these questions can reveal information you’re just not quite ready to hear.
“Tarot can definitely come off as offensive if you’re not willing to hear the truth or consider an opposing opinion. Tarot reading Nicole Fortunaso
According to tarot reader and life coach Nicole Fortunaso, “tarot may truly come out as offensive if you are not willing to hear the truth of the problem or look at an alternate viewpoint.” She advises analyzing why you’re reacting the way you are in order to reflect on how to effectively address the underlying problem if you ask the question and aren’t satisfied with the response.
Do you allow daily Tarot card readings?
Although some people may find it easy to interpret tarot cards, as with anything you learn, practice makes perfect. Kelly Sarber, a psychic medium and intuitive based in California, told INSIDER that daily practice is just as crucial as picking the best deck.
How are Tarot cards charged?
Leave your deck in a sacred location where you can “knead (shuffle) it each hour, giving it your magical power with your hands, for one waking day, much as you would a loaf of rising bread.” The greatest time to use this charge is when you’re taking a day off at home or in a retreat.
What number of Tarot cards do you choose?
If you find this daunting, Howe advises you to take a deep breath and believe in your own initiative. “In order to see it less as “This holds all of these secret meanings that I have to do all this work to access” and more as “I know all the meanings; it’s just a matter of establishing the connections and being able to articulate them,” use language or knowledge that you already possess. She points out that the four elementsearth, water, fire, and airplay a significant role in the tarot, which is advantageous because the majority of people already have an understanding of the meanings of each element. ” If you do that, your viewpoint will be more personal, and you will be able to express yourself more freely.
Howe suggests the three-card draw and the Celtic Cross as the two fundamental spreads for beginning readers. In the former, three cards are chosen at random from the deck to symbolize the subject’s mind, body, and spirit, or past, present, and future. According to Howe, you could even up the stakes and use a six-card draw, with one card for each location.